
Popularity is simply the state or condition of being liked, admired, or supported by many people. This is normally treated as a high school thing, but essentially it is something which can be used your entire life.
You don’t need anything to get popular. You don’t have to be rich, intelligent, or even good looking to be popular. Popularity comes completely from how you behave and act and is overall the fruit of how good you are in making people like you.
There are many benefits of being popular among your peers, no matter if at school or at the workplace. Being popular allows you to firstly feel more comfortable; more valued and gives you self-satisfaction. Also being popular allows you to hold more influence on what happens around you.
Being popular isn’t that hard, but before you attempt this make sure you have basic skills of how to make friends. Than follow these steps on how to get popular:
1. Be confident – confidence is fundamental and if you have that nice smile on and you hold yourself with confidence people will automatically be attracted towards you.
2. Be friendly and kind – everyone likes a person who is helpful and is pleasant to be around create that “happy” and “satisfied” aroma around you
3. Engage with people - You can never be popular if you firstly don’t learn how to effectively communicate.
4. Stop thinking about yourself - Think of others first and be empathetic for everyone. This way people will not only like you but respect you. This in return will help you to get popular
5. Don’t try too hard to be popular - Popular people don’t consciously try to be popular. If you learn the basic skills then you won’t need to try anymore, it will just be you who is automatically attracting everyone.
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bella
Thu, 2012/01/19 - 7:15am
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Really nice, but If you really want to be popular, these are the steps.
-Popular people are mean- you should start a new trend and be nice
-Be approachable, people should not be afraid of approaching you, nor should you!
-Have style and hygiene, keep yourself tidy
But I learnt lots of other things, and if you read this and are unsatisfied go on
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Popular
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