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Why Am I Not Happy

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By: Alison R – 6 years 7 months​ ago
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Nobody on this earth can describe what happiness truly is, yet everybody claims to have experienced it.

Why do you think it’s like that? It’s because the majority of people on this planet don’t understand the psychology behind happiness.

People believe that happiness is acquired from gaining things and that happiness is directly correlated with what they do in their lives. They feel that happiness is just like the other cause and effects in this world, and that a certain thing that they acquire or gain will in effect bring them happiness.

They are so wrong.

Happiness is something which is not quantifiable. You can be the richest person on earth or the poorest yet your levels of happiness could be the same.

The reason why? Happiness is a mentality it isn’t something which can be bought or purchased, it’s something which must be learnt and cultured; it’s all in your head.

This takes us to the question of the article:

You are not happy in your life, only because you choose to be unhappy. It isn’t because of your failures or because of your losses, you are unhappy because of your perspective.

You are unhappy because you are looking at life with the wrong lens. You must grasp the concept that happiness is a mentality and that only you have control over whether you are happy or not.

So what now?

Well it’s time to bring a revolution in your life. You must prioritize and put happiness at the top of your list. You must realize that knowingly or unknowingly the thing that drives everybody in life is the pursuit for true happiness.

This is now your moment to take control of your life. Change your perception and look at life with a big perspective. Realize what makes you happy and pursue it.

Understand the phycology of happiness, understand your psychology and before you know it you will be happy again.

"All the happiness you ever find lies in you."

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