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5 Surefire Ways to Make People like You

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By: Alison R – 6 years 7 months​ ago
Ways to Make People like You

Developing an attractive personality is vital for attaining happiness and success.

These 5 strategies will transform you into a more likeable, attractive person.

1. Body Language

Before you even open your mouth you do a lot of communication through your body. This communication is very subtle but unconsciously everybody picks up on it. For this having good body language is very important in the attraction process.

These are things you should and shouldn’t do when you are trying to make somebody like you.

What You Should do

What You Shouldn’t do

  • Stand Straight
  • Have an Open Posture
  • Don’t Fiddle with things
  • Don’t look tense or too relaxed, find a balance
  • Don’t fidget
  • Look confident and strong
  • Stand with a hunch
  • Have a closed posture
  • Fiddle with objects
  • Look to tense or lazy
  • Fidget and move unexpectedly
  • Look defeated and weak

2. Treat People Correctly

A big reason why people are difficult to get on with is because they don’t know how to properly treat people. Treating people properly is vital to making people like you.

This is what you do: Whenever you talk with people, try not to criticize, condemn or complain. Keep the conversation pleasant and remain positive throughout. Also try to be as honest as possible and give sincere appreciation. By faking it you are only hurting yourself because insincere comments are easily recognized.

Just keep in mind that you want to stimulate an eager want in the other person. That’s why he or she should feel comfortable around you.

3. Radiate Self-Confidence

Like I always say, self-confidence is the backbone to attraction. If you have to choose any one of these strategies it should be this one. By portraying self-confidence you instantly make yourself a more likeable and attractive person. Try to regularly work on this ability and try to overcome all of your insecurities.

“A great figure or physique is nice, but it's self-confidence that makes someone really attractive.” -Vivica Fox

4. Give Plentifully

Friendships and relationships are built on the foundation of giving. Try to give in every aspect of your life and you will receive if not the same but more in return.

 Giving is better than receiving because giving starts the receiving process. -Jim Rohn

5. Be Attentive and Care

Making somebody like you is not a game. Treat whoever you meet with respect and kindness and give the other person your undivided attention. Practice being attentive and learn how to actually care about the person you are talking to.

Showing genuine curiosity is crucial to becoming a more likeable person.

“Attraction is beyond our will or ideas sometimes.” -Juliette Binoche

About The Author – Alison R:​

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